a 60 year old Husband having an affair

by Merry
(Philippines)

My husband is at his 60 years of age and i found out that he is having an affair with a 21 years old female. Could you tell me please what is wrong with him and why he is acting like this at his old age..Is this gonna pass away or should I worry? thanx

Noel's response

Never having met your husband, I can't tell you 'what is wrong with him'. I suspect he might be trying to reassure himself that he is not 'over the hill', plus he gets the exhilaration of a fling with a young woman, which is good for his ego. I suspect it will pass, but who knows?

Should you worry? Perhaps. I suggest to talk to a lawyer to secure your financial situation in case he decides to leave and marry the younger woman.