Can a married man in his 44 become bisexual?

by Susan
(NY)

Question

In the last five years my husband is spending more time with gay friends. I think he has become bisexual.

I'm 12 years younger than him and i am a pretty athletic and sexy woman. I don't know what to do.

Noel's response

My only suggestion is that you talk truthfully with each other about it. Go to a counsellor if you can't talk with each other on your own.

You assume he is bisexual. He may or may not be. Nothing can be done until everything is in the open.