Cheating
by Tammy
(Winston Salem, NC, US)
Question
I've been with a man for six years. He is 47, and I believe he is going through midlife crisis.
He thinks that cheating is okay, and shows no remorse toward me at all. I kicked him out to let him do what he wanted, but he keeps coming back telling me lies.
He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. This has destroyed our life.
Noel's response
Sounds as though it is time to take the cake away. Don't let him come back next time, no matter what he says.