confused - he doesn't love me, but still wants to see me now and then

by sue turner
(london)

married and been together 23 years,he joined the police and changed. then last july he tells me he doesnt love me but still cares for me he has not been with another woman. i still meet up with him now and again and ask him why he still wants to stay friends he says he still likes seeing me now and again im confused help

Noel's response

It sounds as though you are dancing to his beat. How do you feel about him liking seeing you now and again? Is it satisfying to you? Do you get anything out of it, except more confusion? If not, I suggest you stop seeing him.
Maybe in time you will start seeing someone else who DOES love you and want to be with you :-)

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