crying after sex
Question:
If a 46 year old man who wants oral sex and more and after he ejaculates, he cries what does that mean. i have never encountered this and I don't know if it was a bad thing or a good thing and I didn't want to ask so i just hugged him. This happened after the first time I went with him and he has been back since, but it wasn't mentioned. Any ideas?
Noel's Answer:
Mid-life can be a time when a man's emotions are very near the surface. Some men are embarrassed by this. I know one man who even cried when a television news story showed people being rescued!
I don't know this man's history, so am just guessing at what might cause the crying... maybe because he hasn't had sex for a while and has longed for it, or for a close relationship.
You mention oral sex. Maybe for a long time he has wanted someone to give him oral sex and he has had his longing fulfilled.
I don't think it is particularly strange. If he cried every time he had sex, it would indicate some unresolved issue that he should get therapy for.
Noel