Disappearing husband

My husband and I have been together 3 years, and married 2.I am 35 , he is 41.I have 2 children from a previous relationship that considered him dad. I am 38 weeks pregnant. Three weeks ago I found out he was talking to a female half his age that he works with. He swore it was all her and she took it to far. I believed him and agreed that marriage counseling is a good idea.

Two weeks ago he said I love you, gave me a kiss, texted me all day and never came back. Not a phone call or reason. His mom called me and said he was sorry and confused. I am in disbelief and the kids are crushed.

All he seems to be worried about is his parole finding out he is not at his house. Should I keep hoping he will come back or should I stop covering for him because he is not coming back?

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Mar 29, 2016

by: Noel

I have no way of knowing whether he is coming back. If his mother called you, is it safe to assume he is staying at her house, or she at least knows where he is? If so, or if you have some other way of reaching him, you could let him know that you are no longer going to cover for him, and he should contact you.

Hope this helps!

Noel

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