"Ex" remarries (younger woman) and then CHOOSES to have twins!
As we all know, a man's mid-life crisis has NO explanation...BUT...if he CHOOSES to remarry a younger woman and then CHOOSES to intentionally have twins at 48 (via expensice IVF treatments!), can that really make him happy? I just want to hear other's opinions on what he could possibly be thinking!!!! We were together for 24 years and now have two grown children (21 & 24). How could he possibly want to start another family (especially twins!!!) at this time in his life? He is a full-blown Narcissist, but even so, the idea of starting another family at this age couldn't possibly be inviting, right? He travels for a living and is gone 3-4 days a week and when he's home he's constantly on the phone or computer with his work. He wasn't the greatest dad the first time around..... he's very harsh, impatient and yells a lot. I would just like to hear other's opionions of what they think his new life is going to be like. Thanks!
If, as you say, he is a full-blown narcissist, I doubt he is very concerned about his responsibilities as a new dad. He may be looking at it as some sort of accomplishment.