fiance left me

by ANGIE
(TENNESSEE)

My fiancé of 10 years just up and left one day and I finally saw him. I asked him if he was with someone and he said yes. I asked why did you leave me like that, no answers no nothing, not even talking... he said he didn't love me any more. this came out of the blue. I was blindsided by this and I went into a crisis unit because I couldn't understand any of this.. he said he would meet me the next day to discuss some things. I get a text from him that says for me to think about how I wanted to divide things and such. which tore me up again. We had a great life, and I am still at the point of I don't understand how he could be this cruel and mean. He never was like this before. I am so heartbroken over him... he just up and left me alone. I wish I could be angry with him but I can't I am not like that. People that he works with are very upset and mad at him for the way he has done me. I don't know what to do anymore..


Noel's response

I am not sure what to suggest, except that you read other similar stories here, Stay in touch with friends, and go on one day at a time. This pain will pass, but it will take time.

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Apr 18, 2014
Fiance left me
by: NWF

Hi Angie, I am sorry that this happened to you. I hear what you are saying and have been there also.

My H, now xH, walked out 4 years ago so this is not going to be a short term fix for you. It is a long term problem for most of them. Please go to web site: midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com and read the articles there, the MLC articles at first. Knowledge is power. There is also a forum that you can join and read other stories such as yours. I am on that forum but do not post very much. I will keep an eye out for another newbie. We will hold you up and support you. If you start a thread there, others will chime in and offer advice or their stories. This will help you.

Hugs for you, NWF

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