He is having an affair with a younger woman. Will it work?

by Barbara
(United Kingdom)

I have been with my partner for 17 years. i found out someone was asking him for a fling but told me he wasn't interested. After months of arguing i asked him to leave and a month later i found out he is now seeing her. He is 25 years older. Do you think he s having a midlife crisis.


Noel's response

I don't know whether it is a midlife crisis. You don't describe why you were arguing for months. Perhaps he said he wasn't interested and you didn't believe him?

If a younger woman was pursuing him, and you asked him to leave, it is not surprising to me that he might start seeing the woman who was pursuing him. Only time will tell whether it will last.

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