husbands 3 month affair can we survive

by AnnK
(uk)

my husband has had an affair with a widow whose husband had only been dead 3 months, i think the affair lasted 3 months before i found out, he left for 4 days but came back to the spare room when her adult daughter didn't want him under her dads roof. We are now trying again, he's acting as if all is mended but I don't trust him he's still secretive with his phone. He knows this is is his 1 and only chance.am i mad. We are both 50.


Noel's response

I highly recommend going to marriage counseling. Without it, I doubt your marriage has much of a chance, as there is too much unspoken anger, and lack of trust.

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