i am 32 and my boyfriend is 45

by ann
(michigan)

hi i been dating a guy who is 45 years old and i am 32 big age difference i have never been married still a girl he has been married before and has 2 kids i am in love with him treats me great but we kind of think different and have different life style i think because of the age what shall i do

Noel's response

Only you can decide what to do. I don't think age is as big a factor as you 'different lifestyle'. I don't know what the differences are, but if they are very significant, you could have struggles if you got married and neither wanted to change.