I am very irritable

by Samy
(Egypt)

I am man, 44 yrs old, married, have 4 kids, In last 4 years I am became very irritable, very nervous, resigned 3 time, divorced, but we returned back after few month, I am not satisfied with anything, I am always think about another woman.

I need to change but I don't know how?

Noel's response

It sounds as though you are in a midlife crisis. Read Jed Diamond's book The Irritable Male Syndrome: Understanding and Managing the 4 Key Causes of Depression and Aggression and William O. Roberts's book Crossing the Soul's River: A Rite of Passage for Men . They may give you an understanding of what you are going through.

You might also read my own book "A Harley or My Wife", available through this website.