i believe my husband is gong thru a mid life crisis

i believe for the last 2 months my husband is going thru a midlife crisis - i don't know how much more i can take and am wondering will he ever feel the same about me if he comes thru this. he states "he loves me but he is not in love with me" any more and that he does not know what he wants. we will be married 13 years this month.

Noel's response

He sounds as though he is in a midlife transition. It will end in time and if your relationship is still viable, it may be more satisfying than ever, assuming you get through this stage.

It is common for men in midlife transitions to 'not know what they want'.