Im in love with a 50 yr old man who is with a lady dying of cancer

Im a 27 year old woman, in a band with an amazing guitar player. However, im gay, he is abt to be 50, the woman who introduced him and me is dying of cancer and not gonna live much longer. She heard me sing and knew her bf and I would be a good fit musically. I think ive fallen for him and if the circumatance was different I think he feels something too. What do I do?


Noel's response

You're gay, he's straight. Be friends. What else is there to do?

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