Is it normal to return to yoiur ex wife??
I was with my ex for 5yrs he divorced his wife a yr after we were together he had nothing nice to say about her, she is a nasty piece of work all the way through our rlationship she always made him feel guilty about leaving his kids. We went through IVF to have baby and I have a son to him 18mths ago he started cheating on me and I caught him we went through counselling as he has a history of cheating and found out he has a sexual addiction counselling went ok for the first couple of months and then we got to the guilt in his life and his kids kept coming up he eventually ended our relationship telling me he couldnt forgive himself for what he did to me but we ended on a bad note.
I found out a week later that the last couple of months he was fixing his relationship with his ex wife and kids and now has gone back to her a couple of days after we split up, put his wedding ring back on a day after they were back together and tell everyone its his wife when they arent married anymore. ANd says he regrets ever leaving her, they split up 5yrs into there marriage and he cheated on her 5yrs later we were together 5yrs and now his gone back again.
is this normal behaviour.
I wont let him near our son as i see their family that he says he is happy with is dysfunctional am i right?Noel's response
It doesn't sound like 'normal' behaviour, although there is not necessarily a 'normal' in this kind of situation.
You say he divorced his wife a year after the two of you got together, which makes it sound as though you were having an affair with him while he was still married. If so, that would add to his guilt about leaving his wife and family.
I recommend you reconsider your decision not to allow him near the son you have with him. It is important to a child to have a father in his life, and the fact that you think their family is dysfunctional doesn't necessarily mean he is a 'bad father'.