Is my guy committed to me????

by Marie
(Malaysia)

I'm in relationship with this guy for past 9 years. He is divorce but to date he is very secretive about us. None of his family knows about me. He says he is committed to me but why is he secretive..???

Noel's response

Perhaps he is committed to having you as a sex partner and 'playmate', but he doesn't sound committed to marriage, if that is what you are hoping for.