Is there anything I can do to save me marriage

by tami
(crouse, nc)

I have been married for 5 years. I am 6 years older than my husband ( he just turned 40). For about a year now, we have had intimate relations rarely. We learned from the doctor that he has low testosterone levels. My husband kept assuring me that it was him, not me and I believed him. On our 5th anniversary he dropped a bomb, telling me he wants to be intimate but not with me, he loves me but is not in love with me, and he wants a younger woman. He is very indifferent towards me, and states we have been together long enough and its time to move on. He doesn't want to seek help to repair our marriage, and I am at a loss. I dont know what changed, because I am the same and I dont see anything I can do to regain his attentions, so I am at a loss but decided to try asking for some advice anyway. Any clues, any advice?


Noel's response

It sounds as though you married a very immature man. Saying the 'you have been together long enough and its time to move on' is very childish. He may never grow up, and face life as it is, so although it is painful in the short term, you might do as well to let him go, and hope to end up with a man rather than a boy in your next relationship.

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