Kissing means Passion and Desire to me
I put that Topic up because I feel that it is and has been lacking in our marriage. My husband tries but doesn't know how or feel like doing the things that lead up to sex and/or making love. He admitted after he gave me the engagement ring he could take it or leave it when it comes to kissing. That was after I tried kissing him and he backed off. I should have ended it right there because kissing has always been my number one form of showing affection and desire to the one I have feelings for or love. I didn't end it because I thought he would change or didn't really mean it since he kissed me all the while we were dating. He said later that a guy has to do that to get the girl.
I guess it is up to me if I have to accept living this way or not. I is making me unhappy. Our sex life has gone down too. Used to be because he was so tired but at least it was better. Now I think it is our age. Advice would be appreciated.