Making connections to reconnect
Husband moved out 4 months ago to find his "path" as we (me and 4 children) were choking him. He has rented a sparse apt and comes home about every 3 days to see/check on us or mow the lawn. He just turned 59 yrs. Old. Only took work clothes with him. Very little contact with children but I do talk to him almost every day. His job is stressful, he is a surgeon. Already owns sports car, plane boat and motorcycle. Third child went off to college in the fall. I take him lunch and/or a little something two days a week when he has clinic. He is coming home more and talks mostly to me. He did leave the home 9 years ago in the middle of affair. Came home after 8 months. I had seen depression I him as lots of problems at work and with his father. He just now started to make connections with the children, all are home for summer break. Could his coming around being trying to make a connection? I have been loving and kind during this but the kids are very angry with him.