Marrying a woman from another country and giving her money

by louie
(san diego)

The Question


At what point can you determine whether a woman "really loves" you for who you are and not for all the money you give her and her family. I have given this woman over $40,000 in the past four years. Even though I love this woman with all my heart, how do I know she really loves me and not necessarily for my money?

Noel's response

I don't know how you can know.

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Oct 19, 2010
just say no
by: Anonymous

the fact that you are even asking this question suggests a problem. somewhere deep down you are picking up on the fact that something isn't quite right along these money lines.

i'd suggest you just stop giving her money and see how long it lasts. my guess is she'll quickly move on to the next Mr. money bags ... sorry to say.

after all, it's not all about the money, right?

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