My husband of 20 years has a binge drinking problem. Since July he has changed into a man I don't know. He wants to end our marriage, but says he's probably making the biggest mistake of his life. He got really aggressive a few weeks ago and the police told me to change the locks. He said he doesn't hate me, but his behaviour doesn't show that.
When he announced the separation he said he didn't want anyone to know. He wanted to have some fun, drink and go fishing. He hasn't been fishing (his passion) for 9 weeks, but he's been on many benders which have taken him days to get over.
He has been verbally abusive to me when drinking, and before that, was abusive to his mum for years. I asked him 2 days ago if he was happy and he said no. An answer he's given me every week for 9 weeks. He's not sleeping, he's only mixing with drinking friends, and he seems to have lost all emotion. I'm so confused and need some help to cope with him while our home is sold.