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my 41 years old husband wants to have sex all the time, i can't even cudle with him because he gets a hardon. is there anything wrong?

i can't even cuddle with him because he gets a hard on. is there anything wrong?

We have sex almost everyday and sometimes two to three times a day I am 39 and I think it's just too much sex.

Noel's response

If he has always wanted a lot of sex, this may not be a new behavior. But if he suddenly wants more sex than ever, it may be a fearful reaction to a midlife transition. He may at a subconscious level be realizing he is 'getting older' and be worried about losing his sexual desirability.

My only suggestion, if it is more sex than you want, is to gently tell him so.

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