my boyfriend 34 years old cheated and blamed me.

I lied to my boyfriend about who went with me to get my nails done with and he got upset and never came home that night.. the next day he came home and used the excuse well you should not have lied to me and i would not have to go out and do these things.

Noel's response

You don't say who went with you (a man or a woman) to get your nails done. Assuming you went with a girlfriend, and he says lying about that is reason enough for him to cheat on you, he is quite unreasonable.

If you lied about going with a man, your marriage needs some help, and I suggest marriage counseling. Actually, I think marriage counseling would help in either case.