my boyfriend of 10 yrs is 42 an going through, what I believe is, a mid-life crisis :(

My boyfriend and I have been living together for 10 years. I was divorced 12 yrs ago and have three great kids that are 20, 18, 14. My boyfriend and I never fought for about 7 yrs. We are like best friends and have had a very fulfilling, caring, fun, loving relationship. Now I think he's going through a mid-life crisis and I'm not sure we are going to make it through. He's reevaluating his life, the fact that he's never had any children of his own, he's built up so much resentment for my children that he doesn't even talk to them and it's becoming a bad environment. I miss the old person that I was with. I can't even begin to tell you how much we love each other, but now we don't even talk, it's not a good environment for anyone. I miss the man I fell in love with sooooo much. It's horrible. What to do??


Noel's response

If you have read many of the other submissions in this blog, you will find you are not alone. I suggest you go through them and read the ones by women in similar situations to yours. My advice to them is the same as it would be to you.

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