My boyfriends sex drive is gone

by Charmaine Vincent
(Johannesburg South Africa)

Goodday


I am 33 years old and my boyfriend is 43 years old. In the beginning we use to have sex regularly but I haven't had sex from him in the past 3 months. When I ask him why he says he is sorry he doesn't know why his sex drive is gone. How can we get his sex drive back because I am starting to get miserable.

Regards
Charmaine

Noel's response

It is possible he has low testosterone. I strongly suggest he see his doctor for a complete medical, including a test for testosterone level, as low testosterone can be a health risk as well as the cause of low sex drive.

If his testosterone level is normal, there is probably a psychological reason for his loss of sex drive, in which case I recommend sex and/or marriage counseling for you as a couple.

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