My husband and I have been married 32 years and he still wants sex every night.

by Petal
(New Zealand)

The Question

After 32 years he still wants sex every night and sulks if he doesn't get it. I sometimes give it to him just to keep the peace even though I don't feel like it or have an organism. He tells people that he never gets sex and tells our boys that if the shop is shut look elsewhere.

How can I make our marriage better? He has told me that he is over it and will look elsewhere and if that means that we are over then that is how it will be. I don't want to lose him.

Noel's Response

About the only thing I can suggest is you see a marriage counsellor. If he won't come, go by yourself and get some help figuring out what you need to do in this situation.