my husband and wanted have sex with me and another woman at the same time

by Maya
(ontario)

Hi Me and my husband married for 23 years and had happy marriage so far. He has this fantasy of sleeping 2 women at the same time. One of them would be me and he is really in to it and very adamant about this matter.

Is there any way i could bring him out of this situation but I love him with all my heart and wanted help him resolve this issue. I don`t know how.

He has other problem like self confidence,ego etc..
please help

Noel's response

I am not sure how to help. He obviously sees sex with two women being somehow a 'wow' experience in his mind. He may be getting this idea from viewing online porn, or perhaps he has always had this fantasy.

I don't know what to suggest, except perhaps marriage counseling.

Maybe other readers will be able to suggest something.