My husband can't make decisions

by julie moore
(norfolk uk)

The Question

I think my husbands in a midlife crisis. He left two weeks ago. I tell him I love him but he seems so angry and is not in love with me.

what are my first steps? I miss him so much. He can't seem to make decisions, but listens to his mate instead.

Noel's response

My suggestion is that you spend some time thinking about what you want in your life, with or without him. You cannot control what he does (whether he comes back, etc.), but you have total control of your own life.

Even if he does come back once he is through this transition, your relationship with him will be different, so you need to know what you want it to be like for you.