my husband had an affair shortly after we were married

by k
(west yorkshire)

why does my husband of 3 years treat me like dirt?

we had only been married 8 weeks when i caught him out he is 48 and in a mid life crisis.

Noel's response

If you had only been married eight weeks when he had an affair, I suspect there is more than a midlife crisis happening. He could be a philanderer, who can't keep his pecker in his pants. If he is treating you like dirt, decide how much of it you want to put up with, and let him know.

Comments for my husband had an affair shortly after we were married

Click here to add your own comments

Dec 05, 2011
Husband had an affair shortly aftr we were married
by: NWF

My thoughts exactly Noel!!

Why didn't you boot him out after the affair of only 8 weeks?? You said he was in midlife crisis. What is he doing other than not keeping it in his pants?? This does not mean a midlife crisis by itself. This shows that he is a philanderer, like Noel said. To learn about a real midlife crisis go to the web site: midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com. Here you can see exactly what you have on your hands. I don't expect it is MLC. If it is--hold onto our hat, it gets much worse.


Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Ask Noel.