my husband has betrayed and abandoned us

by snezana
(Sydney Australia)

I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2008 and during treatment my husband began a relationship with another woman, after 32 years of marriage, not counting the last three.New Years eve this year he told me over the phone that he was going to live with this person, I might add she knew of our situation and continued to pursue my husband,even with gifts and playing on his emotions eg. I have no one and her second partner committed suicide 10 years ago etc.

We have had a happy marriage until 5 years ago my husband started to play guitar in pursuit of becoming a rock star. He is 57 ND SHE IS 49.We have 3 grown up daughters and she has 1 daughter from her first marriage. My husband is her 3rd partner.

Noel's response

Sounds rough. I hope you are able to move on with your own life. His actions have all the trappings of a midlife crisis. Chances are his new relationship won't last.

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