My husband left but says he loves me and misses me everyday.

by Tori
(Dothan Alabama USA)

I know my husband of 25 yrs is going through a mid life crisis, almost every description I've read of the signs point to him.


He's seeing someone else, has filed for divorce, is spending money on her and her 2 kids like it grows on trees which is absolutely not characteristic of him. He says he loves me and misses me every day but he's not in love with me any more, although he'll never abandon me, he'll always be there for me.

I know he's chasing this woman like crazy and most likely she's just using him (I'm fairly certain she doesn't feel the same way he does really).

Is he truly in love with her? It's driving me crazy! She recently got a divorce and I believe she's still in love with her ex-husband, she is very bitter and angry toward him.

Noel's response


Your husband may or may not stay with the woman he is chasing. Whether he is truly in love with her is not a question you can answer, but as you say, wondering is driving you crazy. You would be better off forgetting about that question, and moving on in your own life.

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Aug 02, 2011
support from others going through the same
by: Maria

http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/standing-actions.html

great site for support

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