my husband says he loves me but he doesn't know why he keeps pushing me away. I'm so hurt and confused.
He has become an extreme Alcoholic. The past few years We've Lost our home and we haven't even lived together. For almost a year. He doesn't talk to me quite often but then he'll Call and tell me he misses me. I don't Understand.
There is really nothing you can do to help him. I am guessing that he calls you to say he misses you when he is drunk, and feeling sorry for himself.
If he is indeed and alcoholic, I highly recommend you start going to Alanon meetings. It will help you understand the dynamics of alcoholism.