my husband says he loves me but he doesn't know why he keeps pushing me away. I'm so hurt and confused.

He has become an extreme Alcoholic. The past few years We've Lost our home and we haven't even lived together. For almost a year. He doesn't talk to me quite often but then he'll Call and tell me he misses me. I don't Understand.


Noel's response

There is really nothing you can do to help him. I am guessing that he calls you to say he misses you when he is drunk, and feeling sorry for himself.
If he is indeed and alcoholic, I highly recommend you start going to Alanon meetings. It will help you understand the dynamics of alcoholism.

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Oct 09, 2012
sex
by: Anonymous

my ex has now decided to go with my ex best friend though i think this has been going on longer than they say

Oct 08, 2012
My H says he loves me but.......
by: NWF

Check out this websit for help, both with info on MLC and the Online Community for you to join and ask Q's: midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com.

Hugs for you, NWF

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