My husband says he loves me but he's not in love with me?
My husband says that he loves me but he is not in love with me. He says that he doesn't know what happened but he fell out of love with me. He's 45 years old and he just keeps saying that I deserve better than what he can give me, and he wants to just leave for 2 weeks to see if he would miss me. He says that he would call me everyday and still help me with the bills but he just wants a break.
When I tell him to talk to our daughter and tell her that he is going to leave, he always says, well maybe we could work on it some more. I really don't know what to do, I believe that he is going through mid-life crisis, and I would love to know if you think that he is also.
By the way, our sex life has gotten a lot better, like everyday for the past 2 months. And he is trying more ways for us. I'm loving it. Help me!
I don't have any advice I haven't given the many other women who have written with similar situations, so I suggest your read their stories and my responses.
It sounds as though your husband may well be going through a midlife transition, and if he is willing, marriage counselling might be useful.