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my partner has left me for the third time in ten years

He first left at age 46 then again age 49 and then again this time at age 56. This age is when you're suppose to be settling down with someone - why would he choose to leave?

Noel's response

I don't know why he would choose to leave now, but it sounds as though you have had struggles for quite a while. This may just be a continuation of your struggles. If he wants to come back again, I suggest you insist upon marriage counseling so you can work out an relationship that is satisfying to both of you.

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