my partnerkeeps changin his mind

by angela
(bradford england)

Question

For three years now is he suffering from mid life crisis. I have been with my partner, we do not live together but I stay at his a lot he asked me to move in with him, then he changed his mind.

Did want a relationship but just wanted to be friend. That was nine months ago. Everything was ok, we went on holiday two times.

Then asked me to live with him again, and then last week same thing again - no living together, just wants to be friends. He takes me out for days, we still have sex, and we just carry on as before.

Is he right for me and should I move on as I can't stand his moods much longer.

Noel's answer'

Move on. He is getting everything he wants, and giving nothing.