need a mistress..
been married fo 21yrs both our 2nd time wife has lots of medical issues I am the care taker here . I don't have the love the way it use to be. attractive 24 yr old women is interested in me. i feel weak about this never have cheated on 2nd wife is this a mid life crisis.help help.
It may be a midlife crisis and it may just be loneliness. It can be very difficult when you marriage changes so dramatically.
In the latter years of my second marriage the relationship was largely devoid of physical intimacy (not due to medical issues as yours is) and there were times I wished I could allow myself to have an affair with someone who was in similar circumstances, but I never did.
Whether you give in to the temptation is a decision you have control over. If you do give in to the temptation, there will be complications you cannot know in advance. That just seems to be the way life works.
If you have a good friend you can talk with, or maybe a therapist, I recommend it.