no sex drive

by Karen
(Wasilla,Alaska)

My husband has no sex drive, at least where I'm concerned but has been watching porn regularly. Is the problem with me?

Noel's response

I don't know anything about either of you, so can't be of much help.

If you are in menopause, or have gone through menopause, it may be you are no longer interested in sex, even if you are still willing to have it with him. This can be a problem for a man.

If either of you has gained a lot of weight, that can have an effect.

If he is over fifty, his testosterone level might be low.

Some men watch porn because their is no emotional involvement, and they can fantasize having sex with a horny (usually younger) woman, which can be a turn-on for a man.