I think my husband had some kind of affair last year, but won't admit it. He found fault with everything I did, e.g. loading the dishwasher, parking the car, just everything about me bugged him. He never noticed if I looked good, he was constantly girl-watching. I noticed some things too that made me quite suspicious. He even told me right out I don't have any physical proof. For a whole year he didn't buy me any gifts and told me I don't deserve anything. He would never even look me in the eye. I couldn't get him to talk about anything for a long time. He swears now he never did anything wrong, that he wouldn't do that to "us". But why can't i shake that feeling? He is 55 years old. He seems totally different now. Move loving, more attentive. I don't know what to do because I can't live with not knowing if something happened. Please help...
I know it can be difficult living with suspicions about your mate, but I suggest you let go of your need to find out if something did happen. You have no evidence to back up your suspicion, and it is no doubt poisoning your current relationship with him.
You might ask yourself how you would feel if you did find out something happened. Chances are you would feel worse.