One year post bomb drop

So here I am. It has been a little over a year since I found out about my husband and his midlife transition. I am not going to say it doesn't hurt - it does. I learned a lot. He claims he learned a lot. This month is our 19th wedding anniversary. It is weird because I thought for sure we would be divorced by now. It has not been an easy road. I have days when it doesn't really bother me and days when it absolutely bothers me. I hope to have days when I don't think about it. Unfortunately, it still plagues my brain. Over time he has been better - more involved. I get gifts and cards. Words of praise. I get the support from him that was lacking when he was deep into his midlife mayhem. There are some times when we can talk about what happened in a calm manner. Anyway, I just wanted to share where I am at now. It feels like an accomplishment.

Thank you for all your support,
Elisa

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Feb 05, 2017
Hello
by: Elisa

God, I hope so!

Feb 05, 2017

by: Noel

Glad to hear you are coming out the other side. It takes time, but I expect things will get better from here on.

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