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by smiley
(england)

i was with my boyfriend for 5 years and we were best friends and had a great sex life, he has a very high sex drive and i know our sex was the best he's ever had. at the end of last year he was feeling down and saying he felt old and unnattractive etc and i wasnt very sympathetic as i had a death in my family. in january this year he said he couldnt do it any more and wanted to be friends, the minute we admitted that things had been going wrong everything snapped back into place and within weeks we were back to our close,loving self with lots of sex. then in may i found out that after a row a few months ago he had joined a hook up site on the net and been sending messages to young women, he only used it for a couple of weeks and then left it. i thought we could sort it out and at first he wanted to then decided that he just wanted to be friends, he loved me but wasn't in love, he didn't know why he wanted to leave and even after he left he didn't seem any happier, he said he just wanted to be on his own although he said he missed me, he texted me every day and said what a waste it was that he felt this way but didn't understand what was going on with him etc. he doesn't want another relationship ever. after a few weeks i lost my temper with what i felt to be his indecision and lack of answers as to what was going on, i behaved really badly, trashed his stuff etc and basically made sure that our friendship was over. in a way i feel better now that im not in limbo but wonder if this was a midlife crisis??

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