pregnant and alone

My boyfriend of 2 yrs left me and I am 7 months pregnant. He said he was no longer "in love" with me and didn't know what he wanted in life. He still wants to be involved with the baby. What does this mean?


Noel's response

You don't say how old your boyfriend is, so it is hard to tell whether he is in a midlife transition, or just doesn't want to face up to the realities of being in a committed relationship and being a father. I suspect it means he is self-absorbed and immature.

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Nov 27, 2011
pregnant and alone
by: Anonymous

Noel get a grip.. maybe he is just scared, most men arent ready for the commitment it takes to be a father. He must still love her or he would just avoid the entire situation. so try and have a serious talk to him about the baby, sometimes us men need to work out issues ourselves, but we will listen to our old partners still.. Best of Luck

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