syptoms in male midlife crisis

I am 11 years older than my husband. We have been married 20 years now.3 kids (youngest 13.5 others 17 and 18)The love making has gone,he doesn't take me out,always goes off on his own,a lot of the time he goes to the beach and gym. Sometimes when we argue my husband says he doesnt love me,hes leaving,he hates me,Why did he come to this country (UK) hes american,Im british.

Hes very moody and quick tempered..He is 42 in June.Are these signs of male midlife crisis?
He seems fed up with everything,hes lost weight and is always buying clothes.

Noel's response

These sound as though they could be indicative of a midlife crisis.

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