Teenage pictures

by Dana
(San Francisco )

My husband is in MLC and just found out on our computer a file with some teens naked pictures. I am not talking 20's 30's 15, 16 or 17 years old pics.

Should I be worried? Is he turning into a pedophyle?

Noel's response

I don't feel qualified to respond to your question, although it is worrying. I am not sure who to suggest you talk to.

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Jul 19, 2014
Teenage pictures
by: NWF

Ooops, I hit the wrong key. MLCer's do not turn into pedophiles. They may look at porn but not that type of porn. If this is why you say your H is in MLC, I would look into MLC further. That is not indicative of MLC...looking at naked young men. MLCer's usually get another woman and get nasty towards the wife and leave...it gets worse after that. Yes, some look at porn but usually porn between men and woman...not naked young men. He may have regressed to that age and missed something there while growing up. He will then start to rebuild his life from that point. Carl Jung and others have written books about the 8 life stages of growth. I suggest that you read up on life stages and what happens when they do not progress correctly(possibly also Eric Erikson)...and more on MLC, Possibly talk to him or a counselor or a minister. There is a website with much info on MLC: the hero's spouse and many other websites that will give you info on MLC. There is also divorce busters to go to for divorce help or call a crisis line for help with your situation.

Hugs for you, NWF

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