To the other woman out there whose life is only beginning after male mid life crisis
I also have sent a message to Noel and would like to send a message to all us women who are in the same situation with their partners in midlife crisis.
Have you read the book Men are from Mars and Women from Venus? That gives you the insight of a male who came from another planet that shows no feelings to mankind, as the woman came from Venus with all the nurturing a woman can give. It is hard for a woman, as we feel every emotional need to survive, and we are surviving.
My children and I were torn apart by what he put us through and I still get upset when I think of all the good times we had and memories. But i have soldiered on no matter how much I still love him, we were married for 32 years, and he left with only the clothes he had on his back.
I have won my home and the car and the respect of my children also the memories from when we were 17 and he 19.
Don't worry the other woman will never achieve what we have achieved with them, don't ever forget they are the second best to us, we were the first. we are on the mother ship now and they are stuck with the alien. Good luck best wishes.