I am a 34-year-old married to the most beautiful loving person in the world. She is the best mother and wife. I am pushing her away because I am never happy with anything and all I can think of is making love to her, and if i don't get my way I get upset. I was never like this, is this some kind of midlife crisis I am going through??Noel's response
It has some of the earmarks of a midlife crisis, but it might also have something to do with a subconscious message you have about women 'owing you sex' because of 'what you do for them'. I suggest some counseling/psychotherapy to help you sort out your feelings.