what am I suppose to do while his 'figuring it out'?

My husband has be telling me and our kids for months that he is moving out, I hear it almost everyday, I never say anything to him, I just let him talk. He now takes off days or even weeks without even a phone call or text, if he doesn't want to talk to me, then call his 13 year old daughter. He quit going to his daughter's sporting events, and he doesn't even attend any family events. I can't take it anymore. I finally text him and told not to come home, I've tried calling him also-he has yet to return any messages. He is 47 years old, my stress level is way to high, I can't deal with it anymore. What does he expect me to do, wait for him while he out exploring his thoughts or doing who knows what?


Noel's response

It sounds as though you have figured out what to do. As long as he is 'figuring things out', tell him he is not welcome at home.

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