What am I supposed to do?

by Pam
(Hillsboro)

Four months ago my husband of 10 years moved to Hawaii to help his parents. Two weeks ago he went to the Philippines and was with some girl. I have been with him through thick and thin. What can I do? Can my marriage be saved?

Noel's response

Not knowing either you or your husband, I don't know whether your marriage can be saved, but I suggest you take what action you can now to protect yourself financially (for example open your own bank account and put at least half of any money you have in a joint account into the new one).

I also suggest than next time you communicate with him you ask him what is going on and what his intentions are.