Wife says she is gay?
My wife of 20 years says she is gay and may want a divorce? I have had a negative attitude the past 2 years with real estate and another job but I recently quit real estate. I understand that I was putting a lot of money into real estate and getting nothing in return. I have no stress now since quitting real estate and feel like a brick has been taken off my shoulder. I love my wife with all of my heart and I can't imagine living without her. I know my wife is stressed out at her work as well. We have 2 wonderful children (18f, 12m) that are taking this really hard. I am praying that after she finds herself that it will be next to me. It's been 3 weeks as of today. Please give me some help on what to do. Thank you.
I don't know what help to offer regarding your wife's decision. Sometimes both men and women at midlife discover they are unable any longer to deny feelings of being gay that they had tried to hide and deny their whole life.
My only suggestion is that you determine what you need in your life with or without her, and move forward as well as you can. Perhaps focus your prayers on best outcomes for both of you.