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Following The Slender Threads
March 31, 2007
Midlife Wisdom For Men Issue #079, March 31, 2007
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· Eat Your Veggies
· Following The Slender Threads
Written by Noel McNaughton Midlife-Men.com (c) copyright 2007 midlife-men.com
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Welcome to this issue of Midlife Wisdom for Men.
When I was researching men's health for my midlife-men.com website, two things stood out as far more important than anything else for a healthy body: diet and exercise. It turns out diet is important for healthy eyes too.
In many hero's journey stories, a couple of older brothers head out to accomplish some task, but fail. Eventually the father lets the youngest brother, the naive one, try it. This one pays attention to the chance meetings he has with old crones, beggars, or other characters, and treats them with respect. They tell him secrets that will help him accomplish his task.
This language is symbolic, and represents the 'inner knowing' we all have, if we don't let our egos override it. Some call it the "still, small voice of God", others call it "following the slender threads". Whatever it is, my experience tells me paying attention to the slender threads can lead to an exciting and fulfilling life, even if it is a bit puzzling at times.
There are about 870 words in the articles in this newsletter, which should take you about two minutes to read.
Eat Your Veggies
A couple of months ago, my wife Elizabeth went to the optometrist for a new eyeglass prescription. As he was examining her eyes he asked whether she ate a lot of vegetables.
She said yes she did, and asked him how he knew. He told her she had the eyes of a 35-year-old (she is in her 60s), and that eating lots of vegetables helps keep eyes young.
So there you go... eat your veggies and fend off everything from cataracts to macular degeneration.
Here's an interesting website where you can quickly learn you BMI, weight-to-height ration, etc., and what each means: http://home.fuse.net/clymer/bmi/
Love: a temporary insanity curable by marriage. - Ambrose Bierce
Following The Slender Threads
Chances are you have had an experience that follows a pattern something like this: You are going on a trip, have made the plans carefully, and have your itinerary figured out. You set off, full of confidence, and then things start to go wrong. You miss a flight, or a train or bus, and have to spend an extra day somewhere not on your itinerary.
But while you are being 'inconvenienced', you meet an interesting person, doing work you have always thought would be great to do, and the person is looking to hire someone!
I think we all experience this kind of pattern in our lives at one time or other. Jungian psychologist Robert A. Johnson, in his book Balancing Heave and Earth calls it following the slender threads. Here is what he says about it (p.99-101):
The concept of listening to the will of God is difficult for many modern people to follow, as it collides with our love of freedom and our insistence on free will. However, I must declare that, with respect to the most important aspects of my life, I am not free. I am safest when I let go of trying to control my life and instead follow the slender threads. This is a religious perspective in the sense that the human ego must surrender to something more powerful than itself.
I have found this in my own life. For years I wondered "what to do when I grew up". In other words, what is my "right livelihood", or my mission. When I joined AA, and along with getting sober, had a profound spiritual awakening, I began to realize that there was a Higher Power (God as we understand Him), who was far more capable of guiding me to my right livelihood than my ego was.
It was through following the slender threads (being open to guidance, chance encounters, and other 'coincidences' in my life) that I ended up at a church retreat that helped my find my mission (Helping people take better care of the earth). I quit my job as a television news reporter, went back to university, and eventually discovered and started teaching Holistic Management (www.holisticmanagement.org).
The slender threads also led me to a chance meeting with a fellow that Elizabeth and I invested money with to develop a device for harvesting water out of the air. It was a bad investment from a financial point of view (we lost our money), but it was good in that it led us to live in Vancouver for five years while we both went through major midlife transitions.
The midlife transition led me to build the midlife-men website, and start this newsletter!
Have you had 'chance encounters' that have offered new possibilities? Have you followed them up? Or did you simply carry on with your life, telling yourself the direction the slender threads would take you wasn't practical, or was just a coincidence and didn't mean anything?
If you have a story of following slender threads, I would love to hear it.
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I Need Your Questions and Feedback!
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Well friend, that's it for now. Again, if you enjoyed this and/or found it useful, and know of anyone else who might like it, please pass it forward. And if you have questions or recommendations, I would love to hear from you.
All the best, Noel
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