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by Tammy
(Winston Salem, NC, US)


I've been with a man for six years. He is 47, and I believe he is going through midlife crisis.

He thinks that cheating is okay, and shows no remorse toward me at all. I kicked him out to let him do what he wanted, but he keeps coming back telling me lies.

He wants his cake and he wants to eat it too. This has destroyed our life.

Noel's response

Sounds as though it is time to take the cake away. Don't let him come back next time, no matter what he says.

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Dec 14, 2009
Once a cheater always a cheater
by: Brenda

Honey!! Its no mid-life chrisis it is men in general. They aint men they just little boys in an older mans body. They never grow up and mature. They trash talk us but when they need us we are always there. My boyfriend just turned forty and what a drama queen he has turned into. Tryin to do things that of a 20 year old. I think he is cheatin too. Im coming to realize that I cant deal with his BS anymore.

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